Every moment you are faced with a choice that can improve your life
So often people overthink the obvious when it comes to feeling their life improving for the better.
The obvious in this case is the choice you have between a positive or negative thought.
So for example, let us imagine you are at work and you are reading an email that is asking you to do something you do not want to do. How do most people react?
Most people immediately look at the negatives. Things like, I am already stressed, I don't have time to do this as well as everything else, last time I did this I was ill ... and the list of negative thoughts rolls on.
With a FEEL4 mindset you are extremely aware of the principles of yin and yang. You know that if there are negatives then there are also positives.
Therefore receiving an email which is asking you to do something you do not want to do is actually never perceived that way. It is not that you do not want to do something, it is more about seeing this as a great opportunity to test yourself.
It is a challenge to be faced with things that are difficult. It also means that when you accomplish them you will feel better than ever. The reward is greater. The positive feelings generated are better.
Don't believe me? Think back to a time you did something like DIY. How did you feel when you finished painting a room of your house? How did you feel when you had finished all of the renovations of your house?
The answer is obvious. The more effort there is the greater the reward. So at those times when you are faced with things you may not want to do, remember you are able to look at the situation in a positive way and decide to enhance your life.
Think about it. Every single thing you are experiencing right now. Every moment is simply about whether you want to look at it in a positive or negative light.
The question is why would you want to look at anything in a negative light?
Author: Cn
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